The Intruder by Gabriel Metsu https://www.nga.gov/artworks/64-intruder
The Protestant Dutch had a reputation for strict rules that defined social conduct. Only on rare occasions, such as a betrothal when a suitor was expected to show passion for his future wife, would a demonstration of emotion be considered proper.
Washington, 1949 (reprinted 1953 and 1958): 90, repro. 1960 Baird, Thomas P.
